User:TimotheaDowling98
How does this concept of "sex begins in the kitchen" work? We all know that doesn't mean getting creative with the utensils and appliances, but what does a lady mean when she says romance begins elsewhere than the bedroom?
These may be a challenge things for men to actually understand, but that shouldn't stop us trying. A husband with potential is the need for pretty much every woman's heart. Ideally, however, the wife who's the desire of the man's heart doesn't require him to alter, but supports him because he tries.
Therefore the picture we're developing is of a husband who's committed to learning and becoming better, having a wife who's dedicated to extending grace, never requiring change. Those two things in tension provide the marriage an ingredient of mutual submission.
The husband submits himself to God, and to his wife, in mastering for everyone her. The wife submits herself to God, and to her husband, by permitting him to grow without forcing matters.
Both are required to submit. Marriage is all about mutual submission.
But let us get back to the subject of sex - and its imminence emerging in the kitchen.
Your kitchen AS AN ALLEGORY OF LOVE
Love can start in the kitchen area or perhaps in the laundry or out in the yard, simply through the act of service; the husband plies his skill and uses his humble strength to work diligently.
It may be an old-fashioned value, but women love working men; not necessarily blue-collar men, but the willingness of a man to lead his family in cheerfully doing the tasks of the home.
Tasks like ironing, dish washing, cooking, vacuuming, etc, may once happen to be the domain from the woman. However no more. The problem is more about the willingness of the husband to help out. His heart is to help.
A lady knows she's loved when her husband seeks to impress her because he loves her. This is an act of religion for that husband, because when he does nice things for his wife she's romanced. He or she must be genuine, committed, sincere.
